Friday, May 22, 2009

GET TO KNOW YOUR BABY

Emotional Barriers

I sometimes grapple with my inability to enjoy my baby.It's not just the time,i notice i tend to focus on her physical needs; Has she had her vitamins? Is she eating enough? Strange that I am more able to 'let go" and be silly with nephews and nieces. Why?





*Parent role model. Sometime we adapt the parenting styles of your parents.My mom showed her concern through "service' and taking care of your needs. She had a serious personality and rarely joked around. This was my "template" for the responsible mom." my sister-in law noticed sometimes I looked angry when I was trying to feed my daughter.this was not my intention,but maybe my intense expression could've made my baby (normally a hearty eater) a little fussier than usual.The lesson-stop taking things so seriously!

*Embrace the mess. Babies can be messy.Accept it. live with it. That's what yayas and wet wipes are for. The most important thing is enjoying the company, and remembering that years from now,we will miss the chocolate kisses the sticky hugs,and the "surprise" of finding clay and toy.dolls and our pillows.



*Different personality.You and your baby my have different personalities and definitions of fun.But we need to follow our child's lead,Though I am the type who likes to stay put,since my baby liked to crawl,then crawl I must. that is what she loves, and though I don't always enjoy going under the table,I will always cherish the sound of her Luther.
8physically tired. since we work all day and sometimes have to do housework,it is understandable that we are exhausted and may not have the energy to play and have fun. Take those 20 minutes of relaxation along shower, or sometime alone in the room.but giving yourself permission to rest,you cam plunge into playtime with a lighter heart and renewed energy levels.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

THE FOUNDATION OF LEARNING




I understand the homework struggle very well: i had to find new methods of helping my daughter (now 5 years old) who had slight dyslexia.Reading is such an important skill(virtually all subjects have textbooks,and the reading load only gets heavier in high school and college). I went through several tutors,and transferred my daughter from one school to another. Everything she learned she put into her reading clinic for those with learning disabilities or reading problems.

The center also tries to make reading less intimidating.Most book are picture heavy and are displayed on low shelves,encouraging young students(preschool to grade school) to browse.From this initial interest of familiarity with books,the center then trains them to develop concept about print,fluency in decoding printed page,vocabulary development,critical thinking.Subjects such as Math and Science are also integrated in the lessons.




One of the best tips Bookgrove gives parents is to focus on the foundation."We don't skip to B if the child hasn't mastered A yet,",adding that this is done also in order for the child to write letter on paper and fuel his or her motor skill.Vocabulary is also a very important since if they can't understand the concept if they don't understand the word.

Reading must also be interactive in order to be meaningful.In Bookgrove,for example,coaches ask students questions,making them think of what will happen next to create suspense.Parent can do this when reviewing chapters in a book"What do you think were the effects of Rizal's death on the revolution? What would you have done if you were living ta that time?"